‘She consumed a bottle of vodka a day’

Bruna Surfistinha’s ex-husband, Xico Santos, countered the writer’s statements about the decision to have left home, as well as to abandon her daughters. Posing with the children on his lap, the artist spoke a little about his relationship with Raquel Pacheco and said he was a “solo father”, since the daughters had an “absent mother”.

“Diary of a solo dad and an absent mom: I experienced parenthood in a different way than I imagined. Being a full-time and solo dad for a year and five months. The ‘mom’? Attached to her bottle of vodka (consuming a per day). Wow! ‘But she needs help’. Yes, she has needed help for 11 years. Help appears, the opportunity for a new life opens wide, that dream of being a mother will shake her up and she will have strength. It didn’t happen!”, said Xico.

Xico said that, alongside his daughters, he needed to learn how to deal with Raquel’s mood swings and that he only decided to make the textão on the web after the statements given by her in a podcast.

“I’m the one who needs help! Taking care of two amazing children who had to learn along with me to facilitate our journey as a single father and daughters of a ‘mother’ there, in the kitchen, now with the sound on the last volume and barely holding on to foot. Cycle of close friends who lived in isolated phases of our journey were very scared and in parts also tried something, mainly because they saw the overload and neglect of the supposed ‘accomplished mother’. I just want to leave here my outburst after seeing a slapstick on a low-rated podcast that picked up a girl power fight, causing gratuitous embarrassment,” she wrote.

Raquel Pacheco’s outburst

Former Bruna Surfistinha said that the decision came from Xico to end the marriage two and a half years ago about a week ago. They are the parents of Elis and Maria, 1 year and 5 months old. The former call girl reported that the now ex-couple went into a major crisis after she suffered an abortion in August last year.

“It’s still very difficult to talk about it (…) I got pregnant last year, in July, I found out in August and ended up losing it, unfortunately. It was an unwanted child, it scared us, we were accepting it. Unfortunately, I ended up having a miscarriage at home. And since then, a lot has changed. I had no support after my miscarriage. I didn’t receive a hug, a word of comfort from Xico. It was my friends who welcomed me at that time. Then I realized that, as a woman, I wasn’t being a nobody there”, said Raquel in “Podsexy”.

The former couple returned to São Paulo at the beginning of the year, after spending two years living in Rio, without working and dedicating themselves fully to their daughters. Crying, she recalls the day her ex-husband asked for separation and left home:

“More than once I gave Xico a chance. We had some fights and some questions that crossed my mind to break up with him, but then I was already a mother… For a long time, I thought a lot about the girls. I thought: “I’m going to take my daughters’ father away. All I didn’t want was my daughters growing up without their father, because I missed their father so much. I didn’t want my daughters to grow up without their father. But it was necessary and one day I hope that they understand. (…) When he left the house, he had his backpack ready, I said: are you sure, Xico? You’re going to leave us here… and he went. my head was: you don’t love me, you never loved me. For all the difficulties we went through, he wanted to go, he blocked me”.